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The One Thing Most Of Us Are Stressed About

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Written by: Courtney Dunlop

 

The One Thing Most Of Us Are Stressed About

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Even with the U.S. economy on the rebound, Americans are more stressed out about money than ever, and the financial strain is harming the nation’s health.

The American Psychological Association’s “Stress in America” survey results for 2014, released this week, shows that 72 percent of adults report feeling stressed about money at least some of the time, and 22 percent say that they experience extreme stress about money. Top reported triggers include paying for unexpected expenses, paying for essentials, and saving for retirement.

While money generally stresses people out across the board, the survey finds that the hardest hit, stress-wise, are parents, millennials, Gen X-ers, and lower-income households (those bringing in less than $50,000 per year). In other words: anyone besides wealthy Baby Boomers without children to support.

Related: The 10 Healthiest Ways To Relieve Work Stress

Women shoulder much of the burden. Far more women than men say they have lain awake at night in the past month due to stress — 51 percent, compared with 32 percent of men).

For the first time, the annual report shows a disturbing trend: All of this financial strain is negatively affecting Americans’ health. Parents are more likely than nonparents to report engaging in unhealthy stress-management techniques, such as drinking alcohol and smoking. And 32 percent of adults say that their lack of money prevents them from living a healthy lifestyle, while 12 percent report skipping going to the doctor because of financial concerns. Almost a third of adults with partners (31 percent) report that money is a major source of conflict in their relationships.

Related: How Stress Messes With Your Workout

There is some good news: Stress as a whole is trending downward, with lower overall levels reported now than in 2007. But that stress is still way too high. “Despite the good news that overall stress levels are down, it appears that the idea of living with stress higher than what we believe to be healthy and dealing with it in ineffective ways continues to be embedded in our culture,” Norman B. Anderson, PhD, CEO and executive vice president of the American Psychological Association, says in a statement.

Chronic stress is directly linked to myriad health issues, including high blood pressure, ulcers, irritable bowl syndrome, headaches, and depression. As difficult as it is to find a way to relieve the mind when life is a pressure cooker of stress, taking a moment to care for oneself is incredibly important. Studies repeatedly show that one of the best ways to reduce stress is with exercise, which lowers stress hormone levels in your body — and it doesn’t mean spending hours at a gym every day. Experts agree: Even a simple walk around the block for a few minutes can do a world of good for the body and mind.

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23 Promises Every Girl Should Make To Her Best Friends And Keep Forever

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Whoever said that best friends were the chocolate chips of life was definitely onto something. They’re the sweetness, sprinkled in between the muck of life – they’re the cause for celebration and excitement; they’re with you, always, even when you’re sure you don’t need them (but you always do).

They’re tender and always in style. Best friends, like chocolate chips, never lose their secret touch — they always add a little something extra to the mix, a little something sweet. So it makes sense to treat them as synonymously as we do our favorite, timeless chocolate treats.

Best friends are… well, best friends are everything.

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There Are 2 Types Of Women: Red Wine Drinkers And White Wine Drinkers

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Women and wine go together like melted chocolate and strawberries. It’s one of the most sacred, functional relationships known to man.

Who needs a boyfriend when you can curl up on the couch with a big old glass of vino? You don’t have to worry about another person’s needs, wishes or dreams — with a glass of wine by your side, everything will be OK.

There are a lot of problems in this big, scary world, but an excess of wine could never be one of them. When it comes to wine, more is better. Always.

All women love wine; we’re certainly united on this front, but the difference falls on preference. Are you a red wine or a white wine drinker? Most women prefer one or the other. You’ll definitely hear “I only drink white” or “I only drink red.”

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14 Things Every Fat Girl Absolutely Needs to Hear

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I knew I had to get in contact with body-positive blogger Jes Baker, a.k.a. The Militant Baker, when the raw beauty and humor in her piece called “Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls… So I will” moved me to tears.

For years, Jes has worked in this sphere of reminding people and especially women of their right to feel beautiful. She’s a mental health professional, a speaker, a writer, and a photographer who created this beautiful photo series called “Body Image(s).”

Below are 14 absolutely true things she wants fat girls to know, or as she prefaced:

Things that I wish I knew earlier. Things that I’ve learned in real life.
Things people really need to talk about more:

1. Everyone has rolls when they bend over. Everyone.

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15 Things That Emotionally Strong People Don’t Do

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There is a particular aspect of mental strength that is the deciding factor of whether or not you will have a good life. There are many levels to mental strength and all are needed to be successful and happy. The one particular area of mental strength that has the greatest impact is that of emotional strength.

Emotions are, of course, a part of our psyche, yet nevertheless, can be distinguished from the remainder of mental qualities because they most directly influence our physical body. They affect the way our body functions and they drive every single one of our actions. Without emotion, we would have no reason to act, to do anything with ourselves.

Emotions are our greatest motivators. Unfortunately, they can motivate us to act in any direction, even the wrong one. For this reason, emotional strength is essential. There are countless situations that emotionally strong people avoid and many actions they never take. Here are 15 of them:

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